Saturday, October 24, 2009

A comfy spot!

Rebekah and Ruth Ella
found a comfy
way to rest this afternoon :)

Ruth Ella was really cutting some
ZZZZZZZZZZZ's!!!

Wouldn't you like to sleep like a baby, too?

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

31 for 21

Journal entry #6
Surgery time


Daddy arrived at the hospital right as I was getting back to my room from seeing you. Daddy and I sat down and began to pray for the surgeons hands and wisdom for him to be guided by the Lord. After some time Grand Daddy and Grandma Charlotte came down to the hospital. Daddy had called as many people as he could before he left for the hospital. The prayer chain at church was going and those who Daddy missed Grammy called. You have many prayer warriors lifting you up to our Lord. About a hour after your surgery started Lonnie arrived at the hospital (our neighbor who we have adopted as our children's grandfather). They all stayed until your surgery was over. We sat in my hospital room talking and praying. Time was ticking and they called us from the O.R. twice to let us know all was still going well. Your surgery took a little longer than what they had originally thought it would. It started at 9:30PM and we got the final call from the O.R. at 1:00AM to tell us they were starting to close then. They had you back in the recovery area by 1:45 AM and we all came down to see you. We went in 2 at a time first Daddy and I we stood and looked at all the new machines and gadgets that were hooked up to you. The moment almost seemed surreal.


More tomorrow this one is a tough one...

6 weeks gone....

Today
Ruth Ella
is
6 weeks old

I'm not sure how 6 weeks can fly
by so quickly but it has.
At times it feels as though Ruth Ella
was just born. Then there are
those moments I can't remember
what life was like without her.
We are all enjoying her so much
and there are times I feel I
could just eat her up with a spoon,
she is so sweet.
Oh the fragrance of her hair,
the soft texture of her skin,
the gleam in her big blue eyes,
and since last week...
her beautiful smile.
Those are just a few things
I love so much about
Miss Ruth Ella!

Wordless Wednesday


Tuesday, October 20, 2009

31 for 21...Duodenal Atresia

Before I write the next journal entry I thought that I would post a link to about Duodenal Atresia. It will help you to understand what Jonathan was born with and had surgery for.


Duodenal Atresia in infants with Down Syndrome

We found out when I was 24 weeks pregnant that Jonathan had Duodenal Atresia and would need surgery after birth. It was detected by ultrasound because of the "double bubble". I also had an excessive amount of amniotic fluid. Both were signs that pointed to him having Duodenal Atresia. We were blessed to know early, this gave us time to meet with the pediatric surgeon before Jonathan was born. The surgeon helped us to understand what all Jonathan would have done during surgery.

Tomorrow back to the journal entries...I'm a little slow at posting most days, forgive me :)

Monday, October 19, 2009

Memories Monday

Memories Monday & 31 for 21

August 2006
Wow, time flies by!!!


This is Jonathan and Amanda, they are really funny together. From the time Jonathan was a baby until he was about 8 years old Amanda babied him. Giving into his every want, even at times we instructed her not to or for her to get him to do things for himself. She really catered to him, telling us that she wanted him to live with her forever. We continued to tell her that one day he would take advantage of her and he really needed to learn to take care of himself. Well, the day came when Jonathan didn't act very nice to Amanda and she could tell he was getting the best of her by manipulating her. It was a true awakening for Amanda, and from that day on she changed the way she handled Jonathan. She loves him more than ever but now her love is shown by making him learn to do for himself, and not allowing him to act as though he can't. These are the times he runs to Sissy (Elizabeth) for attention and to get his way. Elizabeth just redirects him back to Amanda. Funny thing is now she can at times get him to obey and mind her better than the rest of us. Jonathan is Amanda's buddy meaning she fixes his plate at meals, makes sure he is ready and dressed properly (matching shoes on the right feet) when we are going out, and is his buddy when we are shopping etc. There are a few exceptions to this like when he hasn't been obedient and then he becomes Daddy's buddy...not a good thing. All in all we know Jonathan's tricks inside and out. Amanda makes him toe the line and keep on track. That's how she got her nickname...The Drill Sergeant. She is wonderful with Jonathan and his antics, they do make a good team :)

Saturday, October 17, 2009

31 for 21...day16 & 17

Journal entry #4
Waiting...


October 9th, 1998
4:00 PM

This afternoon we have had many visits from friends. They are still been keeping a close eye on your blood and we have been praying for a change to come. Daddy and I came back down to see you around 2:00pm, you looked very peaceful. At this point the nurse said it's just a waiting game. We stroked your hands, arms, and legs while talking to you. Your eyes remained closed but we know that you could hear us. Again I wanted to pick you up, but seeing you I knew would have to be enough for now. Daddy walked me back to my room, and then had to say good-bye for the rest of the day. Daddy had to get back to town to take the girls to the rehearsal dinner and Daddy needed to get his camera stuff ready. (Arthur was photographer before we got married and he was photographing a wedding, our 3 girls were in the wedding) I didn't want to see Daddy leave and he didn't want to leave us. Now I'm sitting here and I feel very alone, yet I know with the Lord we are never alone.


I will never leave you nor forsake you"
Hebrews 13:5







Journal entry #5
Change comes fast


October 9, 1998
8:30 PM

I was by myself and received a call from Dr. Carr to tell me that your platelet count had come up. He said he was shocked it had taken a turn so quickly, I wasn't as shocked for I knew the Lord had answered our prayers. What I was shocked about was what Dr. Carr said next. He told me that an operating room had been cleared and that your surgery was scheduled for 9:30pm...TONIGHT! He then proceeded to tell me that if we wanted to see you before surgery we needed to come now, because they would be taking you back soon. My first thought was I've got to get down to NICU fast, I couldn't let you go into surgery without giving you a kiss and talking to you. Then it hit me...remember your alone and need to call Daddy first. I knew Daddy wouldn't be home yet so, I paged Daddy (this was in the day of pagers & not as many cell phones). I sat on the edge of my hospital bed praying that your Daddy would call me back fast, that way I could get to you before they took you back. Within a matter of minutes your Daddy called and I broke the news to him. We talked quick on what to do with the girls and how Daddy needed to get here fast. After I hung up the phone I was off to NICU to pray over you and give you my love. I stood by your bed with a million emotions running through my head, I felt like my legs were noodles and may not hold me up. I held onto your bed to brace myself wishing your Daddy was there with me. A minute later Dr. Carr came in and said it was time to take you back...I had to let go, placing you not in the doctors hands but fully in the Lords because He is your protector and healer.




Those who trust in the Lord are like Mount Zion, Which cannot be moved, but abides forever.
As the mountains surround Jerusalem, So the Lord surrounds His people
From this time forth and forever.
Psalms 125:1-2

Stephen's 7th Birthday


Yesterday was...
Stephen's 7th Birthday!!!
Stephen's birthday was army theme.
We have never done this theme before.
Our boys have been learning a lot
about World War II,
and how their Grand Daddy (Hal)
was in WWII.
Grand Daddy wrote a book several years
(Hal was a journalist)
before he passed away about
his life and much about his time in WWII.
After Stephen's birthday supper,
we were on to gifts.

James was giving Stephen his gift...
with the new haircut they
sure do look alike now.
They are 23 months apart in
age, but just about the same size.
James is taller and Stephen
built thinker with bigger feet!

I had to put Ruth Ella in the post,
she's really enjoying these birthday parties!
She gave Stephen a Minnie Mouse to
go along with the club house,
she felt like every clubhouse needs
a girl in it. Before we know
it she'll be playing with them to.


In one big breath Stephen blew out the candles.
He had a great birthday.


WE LOVE YOU
VERY MUCH
STEPHEN!

Thursday, October 15, 2009

31 for 21....day15

Journal entry #3
The waiting game


A little before lunch Dr. Carr the surgeon came by to talk about your surgery. They wanted to do your surgery to repair your Duodenal atresia as soon as possible. There is a problem, with your blood. Your platelet count is down and in order to do the surgery they need it to come up for your blood to clot properly. In a few minutes they will start to give you a blood transfusion. This isn't what we expected and I feel like we are watching a movie play out. A movie that we are playing a role in, yet we weren't given a script. We have meet 4 doctors in the past few hours all very nice. With the way they speak, it feels as though they were given the script. It all just seems to be coming so natural for them....but it's not for us! I'm so very thankful they are all so confident, but they are talking about my baby....not fixing a car. Oh how I want to go get you hold you and rock you. I love you so much, now we wait and PRAY!



"Peace I leave you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid".
John 14:27

A little boy makeover

It was time for Stephen to leave
the little boy world,
and venture out into the
world with the big guys......
BEFORE

So much to cut
and he sat so well.

AFTER
TA-DA !!!
The new
Big Guy Stephen
He loves his new haircut,
and it came at a great time
because tomorrow
Stephen will turn 7!!!

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

31 for 21...day 14

Journal entry #2
Helpless

Morning
October 9, 1998

Watching the clock seemed to make the hours pass very slow. I so badly wanted to come and visit you in NICU, but my doctor wouldn't allow me to. They wanted me to wait until I had Daddy or someone to take me down to see you. Finally around 9:00AM the doctor said I could make the trip to visit you in NICU, Daddy and Grand-Daddy (Arthur's father Hal) were both at the hospital. The walk from my room to the NICU was very long so Daddy pushed me in a wheel chair. I was so excited I was going to see you and feel your warm skin against mine. As Daddy pushed me down the halls it felt like the halls just kept getting longer and as if we were caught in a maze. Then I saw the NICU sign and I felt a great sense of relief, you were just beyond the double doors. From outside the door we used the phone to call into the nurses station to have them open the doors for us to come visit. You are in the second pod (critical care room) in the NICU and there are 4 other babies in the same pod with you. There are 8 beds and your bed is at the back of the pod. When we reached your bed they had a stool for me to sit on so I could see you better. Daddy helped me onto the stool and the 3 of us stool there next to your bed in complete silence for the first few minutes. Your color isn't very good and your were hooked up to all kinds of wires. Daddy and I had taken a tour of the NICU before you were born so we would know what to expect, but now it was different....because now our baby was the one in the bed. We weren't allowed to hold you but we could touch you. I looked at Daddy and he patted and rubbed my back then smiled at me, then I looked to Grand-Daddy and he too smiled. Each one was talking to me and each other about you. Yet, I can't tell you what they said. It's all a blur now, all I can remember is how pitiful you looked and how helpless I felt. I am your Moma and I'm suppose to make things right for my sweet baby. Every fiber of my being wanted to pick you up into my arms, place your head on my chest and snuggle you....taking in your scent. I cried but tried not to, what I wanted to do was scream and cry out to the Lord for strength. We were only allowed to visit you for a few minutes and it wasn't long enough, I wanted more time! Your face, hands, and feet are etched in my mind and it's all I can think about and see. PLEASE, Lord be with Jonathan right now when I can't. Lord, please carry me in this time...for when I'm weak you are strong.




Current thought.....I'm finding as I read my journal it may take longer than a month to share Jonathan's story. So I'm trying to hit the highlights and not all about the full day with visitors and such. Other wise it would take me years to write this story :) Lots more to come. Side note I don't seem to have much time in the day so the post are written late when Ruth Ella is settled... this one being posted for the 14th but it just turned the 15th as I was writting. Good Night!

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

31 for 21...day 13

Journal entry #1
Life with Down Syndrome & many questions?


Jonathan Michael Munck
was born at 12:03 AM
October 9, 1998 (8 weeks early)

With a room full of nurses and doctors ready for you to enter into this world, you made your grand entrance. When Dr. Adair turned you around to allow your daddy and I to see you, I knew it you were perfect. A true gift from the Lord....fashioned by the Potter. So many people had prayed for you and this day over the past several months. We have known for many months that you were going to be special and have Down Syndrome. But I had wondered were they right, could they have made some kind of mistake. So for months I prayed that God would give me a sign of some kind, and that the doctors not have to again confirm that indeed you had Ds. Dr. Adair handed you over to Daddy and I to hold. We were only allowed to hold you a short 2 or 3 minutes before you were taken away to NICU. In those few minutes we looked at you and marveled at our new son our perfect gift, and then it happened. You turned your small face up towards Daddy and I then stuck out your tiny tongue and opened your eyes. That was the sign that I had prayed for all those months...in your face we saw your precious almond shaped eyes and tiny pointed tongue. Daddy and I looked into each others eyes and without words we both knew, you were blessed with a little something extra...giving us more to love. We kissed you and you were taken from our arms to NICU. Even though Daddy and I have known you could have Ds and also you would need surgery it didn't prepare us for the long night after you were taken to NICU....so many questions and we longed to be with you.


Until tomorrow.....

Monday, October 12, 2009

31 for 21...day 11 & 12

Some how Sunday came and went
in a blink of the eye.
I never got around to writing a post
sorry!!!!
Today I came up with what I'm going to
post about the rest of the month
for 31 for 21.....

The rest of the month I will be posting
something from my journal....
the journal I
kept from the day Jonathan was born.
I'll share a little from the first day
he was born until the day
we brought him home from NICU.
Until tomorrow......

Saturday, October 10, 2009

31 for 21....day 10

Jonathan's Birthday In Pictures



















No words needed the pictures
and the faces
say 1000 words!!!!

Friday, October 9, 2009

31 for 21...Jonathan's Birthday

JONATHAN MICHAEL MUNCK
Born: October 9, 1998
12:01 AM
8 weeks early
& weighed 5 pounds
YOU HAVE COME A LONG WAY BUDDY!!!
Today you are 11 years old
and weigh 57 pounds!!!
We are so proud of you and
all that you have accomplished.
We are blessed to have
you as our son.
WE LOVE YOU!!!

Thursday, October 8, 2009

31 for 21...day 8

I love this picture of Jonathan and
it speaks so clearly of how I see him.
In a world that things are often
harder for him than others.....
he always has the "Son"
shining down on him.

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Wordless Wednesday...4 weeks old today!

Ruth Ella

31 for 21... day 7

J- Jolly

O- Outgoing

N- Nice

A- Affectionate

T- Teaser

H- Hugger

A- Adventurous

N- Neat

31 for 21...day 6 (late)

Easter 2009

Jonathan is a deep thinker. Often times you will find him looking just as he does in this picture. He always has his hand on his face as if it helps him to concentrate. Like the night we dyed Easter eggs Jonathan sat and observed more than he joined in. These are the times I wish Jonathan's speech was better so he could share what he is thinking with us.

Monday, October 5, 2009

31 for 21...day 5

Today was a day mixed with the good and the bad...real life!!! A day of trials and testing of wills with Jonathan. I'm older and you would think mine would have won but I don't believe there ever is a winner in this type of competition. So, this made for a long day and one of those days I dealt with character issues all day. These days thankfully are few and far between for Jonathan but, it proves again Ds doesn't hinder him from being just like all other children....strong in mind and will !!!

All this to say people with Ds aren't "always happy go lucky"....they are just like you and I with many different moods and short comings. Like everyone else that has ever walked the face of this earth, we were created in HIS image....each one unique!

Sunday, October 4, 2009

31 for 21...day 4

A few weeks back Elizabeth did a little baking with a few of the boys.

All the boys enjoy helping out in the kitchen, and here they were ready to get started making the banana bread.


As you can see from this picture Jonathan was the most excited about the whole hands on baking lesson :)

Jonathan loves to help out in the kitchen. Then there are those times we really don't want his help. So, during those times you will find Jonathan sitting watching. Jonathan just like all our children helps out in the kitchen and has his own chores. The chores he isn't always so crazy about but, helping in the kitchen he's ready at a moments notice. He likes cooking, table prep, cleaning up after dinner, and his favorite the eating ;)

Saturday, October 3, 2009

31 for 21...day 3



Jonathan posses something not all of us have....

A radiant SMILE, that's very contagious!

It's very difficult to look at Jonathan when his eyes are sparkling and he is smiling. No matter what your mood, you'll always feel the need to smile back :)

The gift of a smile is truly a blessing given from above!

A cozy spot...


Wesley has found a cozy spot...Ruth Ella's boppy pillow.


He has pretty much taken it over as his own.


What he likes best about the boppy pillow is on one side it's a great head rest and the other side is just the right spot for him to prop his books....books being Wesley favorite thing in the world! I'm sure he's just breaking the boppy in and getting it ready for his little sister when she takes up reading ;)

Friday, October 2, 2009

31 for 21...day 2






One thing is for sure with DS
we celebrate each new
accomplishment no matter what the age
that he is able to master it.



Jonathan at age 10

can now swing himself!!!



What some see as a mole hill

others view as a mountain,

Jonathan just conquered a mountain

when he learned to swing!

Thursday, October 1, 2009

31 for 21...post 1

October is Down Syndrome awareness month.
Last year I participated in the 31 for 21
challenge to post something daily for or about Ds.
It wasn't hard to do with a wonderful subject like Jonathan.
This year I just hope I can keep up ;)
For those who don't know much about Ds,
this will be a great month for you to learn.
On my sidebar you will see the
31 for 21 logo, and if you click on it
then it will take you to other families posting for Ds.
Why the name 31 for 21???
Down Syndrome is also know as
Trisomy 21.
Those who have Ds have an extra copy of
chromosome 21, making them have
3 copies instead of 2.
So 31 being the days in October
and the 21 standing for what makes those
with Ds so unique :)
This picture was taken of Jonathan back in July.
He was enjoying a nice evening outside
painting with his siblings.